In response to Dave. I agree that an affair is only going to end with hurting a relationship most times cause the relationship should be about more then just the sex and if it is not it will come to an end. However, in a broken relationship an affair can sometimes help both or one of the people realize how broken their relationship is quite possibly allowing them a chance to step back and see their problems and find a possitve resolution so I would say on rare occasions it can save a relationship.
In storm though I didn't get the feeling that Calixta's husband was over powering or mean. It seemed that, that was more her role to lead relationship, the way he came in. Having a lie all prepared so that she won't be mad at him or his son for being a mess. Maybe though I misinterperted the end cause it seemed like it was setting up for a repeat performance and them being able to lie to their spouses however if it made Calixta and Alecca(?) appretaite their own spouse more I could see how it may strentghen their relationships. But they would have to be honest with their spouse and communicate.
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Jay i think you bring up an interesting point about how an affair may in some occasions may save a relationship. I'd have to diagree with ya on that. From my expierence if there is any kind of infedelity in a relationship then there will always be a sense of doubt or uncertainty. Now maybe your right in taht it may help a cuple realize what they had, but that realization wont be strong enough to keep the couple together.
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